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We will be doing a program later this year probably where they will actually plaster cast his GOOD hand to force him to use his bad...but even just holding his good hand back right now results in pure rage and screaming fits...beet red face, tears...you get the picture. so that should be fun!
A little advice from "the child's point of view." Always expect him to do his best, but follow his lead when it comes to expectations. That is to say, see what he develops naturally, and then go with it. My mother drives me nuts sometimes. I have amazed her in my abilities with my vision, and going where one would not expect a "disabled" person to go (hey, don't dis my abilities, people!!), however, with this amazement, she often forgets the limitations I do have, limitations I've discovered on my own. As a result, one minute I feel like I'm wrapped in bubble-wrap, the next minute, I'm getting heck, because I am not going to do something she pushes me to do.
If I do something really "out there" she gets worried, and then I have to hear about it and hear about it and hear about it and.... I've learned to do first, and tell later. Next week I'm going to get on that plane, fly to NYC, and call her from the bar in the hotel! :) That's how I did it when I went to AZ. Had I told her of those plans in advance, she'd have probably tried to chain me to a pole, to keep me from leaving the country. Parents can be funny that way!!
I can tell right now that Noah has no "disabilities" just "differentabilities." He and I are "differently abled." Personally I think it's the ones who aren't differently abled who have the problem, because it is those folks who have the hardest time thinking outside of the box. Of course successfl parents of differently able kids are awesome, in that they learn by trial, error, and their kids shining examples, that "the proverbial box" really doesn't exist. :)
My mother says it's her job to worry. Of course it is, but after 31 years, I sure get sick of hearing all the worries, everytime I want to do something big and amazing. :) :) :)
again, not defending, or saying you're wrong or anything. Just playing the other part here.
There is a HUGE emotional factor in these situations on the parents side as well. And as we all know, emotions are rarely logical....
Hey, I thought of another idea for those bottles. Get some coloured poker chips, or something. Paint each bottle the colour of a corresponding pile of chips, and cut a chip-sized hole in the top. Play a match game by putting the coloured chips into the bottles. Fine motor skills, and colour matching all at the same time. :)
What about getting small objects like dice, marbles, (trying to think of a tiny triangle shape now) etc. and cut holes in those shapes into the tops of the bottles. Fine motor skills, and shape identification. I used to have a plastic toy with shapes cut into the size of it and corresponding blocks that fit in there. Then I'd pull the toy apart, and shake the big blocks out again, and put them back in. That's what made me think if shapes.
I think the thing that drives me the craziest is that I've proven again and again and again the amazing things I can do, and my awesome steel nerves, and she still finds a way to drive me nuts.
What you said about emotions not being logical is more brilliant than anything Shakespeare could have come up with. So very true!!!!
Looks like a bowling pin to me too. I'd just recycle it, I find that clear plastic containers have much more uses since you can see in them.